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Saturday, October 15, 2011

how do i communicate effectively with others??

assalamualaikum....moshimoshi...
now i want to tell how do i communicate effectively
with others???

Have self-worth

Self-worth is analogous to self-confidence. The better i feel about yourself, the more confident i going to be. With self-worth, i can get what i want out of every conversation. Without self-worth i’ll be stuck in small-talk. In order to get what i want out of a conversation, i must give the other person a chance to believe that i worthy of their time and effort.

Get interested in other people

People have two stations which other people can listen to, WIFM (what’s in it for me) and WIFO (what’s in it for others). WIFM is boring for people to listen to. Most people are interested in themselves. People want to be flattered, and i can do this by letting the other person talk about myself, by changing the channel to WIFO.

By changing the channel to WIFO, i have just led the person to feeling good about myself. Since i were the one who made them feel good about myself, i will be indebted to me and will want to pay i back by helping me out with what i wanted them to do for me.

Listen at least two times more than i talk

i have two ears and one mouth for a reason. Therefore, i should listen twice as much as me speak. To show that my listening effectively, i must ask follow-up questions. A follow-up question shows the other person that my listening, and perhaps equally important extends the length of the conversation in a good way. For example, somebody tells me they love to hike. Ask, why do you like to hike? What is it like to hike? I was interested in hiking; could you give me some basic advice on hiking? By showing my listen, and by extending the conversation, i really open up a person’s heart.

Diversify myself

Learn about sports, dancing, even television shows, etc. This gives me subjects to talk about, as well as chances to meet new people. In cases such as dancing, where i meet people as you perform the activity, i actually killing two birds with one stone. i get the chance to meet new people, plus the chance to diversify yourself, as well. It also gives my status, essential for getting the most out of any conversation. For people are more attracted to somebody who is diversified, and has a lot to talk about. Being diversified is an important commodity for anyone to have.


why do i feel nervous in front of the public and how do i overcome nervousness?

assalamualaikum.....moshimoshi..
 today i to tell you alls something...
the topic is why do i feel nervous in front of the public
and how i overcome nervousness??????

ok...the 1st
because i never really thought much about a lot of things, and life was just 
easy and went on worry-free.
i always was shy, and wished to be more outgoing,
but it didn't ever really bother me that much.

2nd...
if i get the topic not familiar with me...
it's make me  more nervous
in my mind always think the audience
must ask me the question...
if i cannot answer it how???

3rd...
reason is i don't have experience...
it's make me very nervous..
specially the audiences
i look at me...

how do i overcome nervousness???

1st....
i must practice,practice and practice...
for example practice in front the mirror..
it's can i look my body gesture and how i present my
speech in my audiences...

2nd... 
Ask myself: What is the worst that could happen?
 In many cases i will find that the answer boils down to: not really that much.It’s easy to get too wrapped up in what is about to happen and magnify
What is really the worst that could happen? How will it affect you in the long run?
 the event and possible consequences in my mind until it seems like it’s a matter of life and death. It seldom is.
 Asking a few simple questions can put things into a healthier perspective and calm me down
3rd...

  • Sit in a relaxing position with my legs apart.
  • Put my hands on my stomach. Using my stomach breathe in slowly through my nose. If i are doing it right my stomach will expand and i’ll feel it with my hands.
  • Breathe out slowly through my nose and do it with some force so i feel my stomach pull slightly inwards towards my spine.
  • Breathe in and out 30 times. Take slow and deep breaths.
After i have taken 30 breaths and focused on counting them i should not only feel more relaxed and centred. My body will also be able to continue breathing in this manner without my focusing on it. And that’s it. Continue with my normal day





Friday, October 7, 2011

persuasive speech.....

assalamualaikum, good afternoon,konichiwa,
namaste, shincau, buenas tardes, guten tag
annyeonghaseyo.....


do you know what i'm say???
it is are mean good afternoon from another languages.
do you want to learn foreign language??
are you interested??

before i start my speech
do you know about culture and languages another country???
do you have a pen pal in another country???


i want to tell you another reason why you must learn foreign languages
1.   to increase understanding of oneself and one's own culture

Henri Delacroix say 
" the individual's whole experiences is built upon the plan of his language"

knowing another languages and culture affords you the unique opportunity 
of seeing yourself and your own culture from an outside perspective.

intercultural experiences have a monumental influence on shaping your identity ,
heightening your self-awareness, and giving you a full appreciation of your life
situation.

these things can happen only with knowledge 
of cultures and languages other than your own.

2. to make lifelong friends

Henry boye" the most important trip you may take in life is meeting people halfway

knowing other languages effectively increases the globe with whom you can communicate

and people who speak other languages fully appreciate the effort and
desire learners expend to get to know their culture and communicate
with them.

 whether through meeting foreign exchange students on your campus or
local immigrants in your community, whether getting to know natives or
international students while studying abroad , or whether establishing a 
connection with pen pal in another

your ability to speak other languages and your interest in other cultures
can connect you deeply with people around the globe

conclusion
anyone who has told you that learning
another language is impractical, unrewarding or simply a waste
of your precious time is doing you a great disservice.

advantage and enhance your life ... learn a language!

i want to show u alls some video..
they are korean try exchange
that word in english

                                    learn foreign language is fun and interesting....

                                               this is my persuasive speech...









Monday, October 3, 2011

i would like to eat....

hai kowng.....moshimoshi...
ari  nie
dodo nk share ttg makan...
ari nie puasa ganti...opppsss...
so x de bnde nk wat 
dodo update lorh blog...

ok, 1st skali...


kowng tau x nie pe???
nie nme die yee mee sizzling..
sdap jgk...
try lorh..price die bleh than gak.
yg biase rm4.50 klo tmbh telor rm5.00

2nd....

nie cupcake...
cntik x...??
cupcake sdap gler..
kteowng tempah mse wat jamuan 
mse sem 3 klo x slah lorh...
tgk kat cupcake 2 ade nme sume owng...
cube cri nme dodo???
weeeee...
hrge 1 cupcake rm3.00..
try lorh..

next...
try guess nie burger pe???

hahahahaha....
ni double cheese burger...
from mcdonald...

slaluyer klo g mcD dodo akan ambk 1 set
coz this my favourite burger...
weeee
klo 1 set under rm10...ambk yg regular jer...
klo ambk yg large dlm rm1+...







sdap x????

mse nie dodo bwk nany g mkn pizza hut...
mklom mse nie bru dpt PTPTN...
jd owng kaya jap...
dodo blanja nany..
ya allah....kenyang gler...

spaggeti ni sdap gler...
spagetti yg ade udang 2...
mushroom soup die pon bleh than ar...not bad



nie first try GCB...
mse nie nany blanja I mkn...
kteowng ambk 2 set...
sdap lorh GCB NIE...

tapi double cheese burger ttp d'hati...
ttp menjadi pujaan hati....wwwuuueeekkk



this makaroni make by 
me n nany...
mse 2 puase..
tibe2 teringin nk mkn makaroni..
so ajak nany g tesco g bli bhan2 tuk wat makaroni goreng...
hasilyer...
sdapppppp....sehingga menjilat jari kaki...



nie is satay...
dodo mkn satay nie mse jamuan rye kat 
KPTM AS...
sdap....pnyer..
nk ambk satay pon kne gne kupon...
mklom lorh nnt ade yg berebut...

ok setakat nie sajer....
sebnryer ade byk lg nk share....
tp cukup lorh nie....

daaaaaaa.....

Saturday, October 1, 2011

my informative speech...

assamualaikum to sir khairulnizam and 
my fellow friends..
today, i bring this bag.
i want ask u all some question..
you want to know what things in this bag???
try to guees??
do you know what it this???
today , i bring are shawls 
i would like to introduce the types of shawl
 i have many variety of shawl
1. gypsy shawl
2. pashmina
in nowadays, many girls dressy shawl.
it already become trend.
but some girls do not know how want to wear shawl
today , i want to inform my audience 
the basic of tutorial how to wearing shawl????
before that,i would like to invite comby 
to be my model wear a shawl
the material we need it shawl,pin ,needles


that have 3 steps wearing shawl
1. take any shawls that you like ,put on your head
divide into 2: one side short and another side very long
you might need to pin here for beginner
2. take a short side do like this .pin here to secure
3. take a longer side wrap around your head ...
DONE...


now i want to show u alls the variety of style
went wearing the shawl...



the conclusion, if you like to wear a shawl must brave
comfortable with yourself and the importabt thing practice make perfect .
if you want to learn more style to wear  it 
you can visit youtube
At youtube  have a lot tutorial...
that's all
thank you...


huhuhuhuhu.....this my informative speech
for public speaking class....
p/s :practice make perfect.....